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By Rosaleen Dickson, BA, MJ
Dear Great Granny.

I'm having a really bad problem, and I don't know what to do.

My boyfriend is extremely jealous because I am on-line talking to people. I don't flirt with them, I just talk to them, and he got mad yesterday, and said I was. He has a best friend that is a girl, and he talks to her all the time. He says that there is a difference.

I have 2 best friends, and one is a guy. But my boyfriend hates him, and doesn't like it when I am around him because I dated him. But he dated his best friend for a while too. I don't want him to think all girls are going to cheat on him, but my friend (this girl) says that it usually drives girls to leave a guy when he is so jealous.

I know how it feels to be hurt, and I love him more than anything, and wouldn't want to hurt him for the world, but I'm confused. I need to have guy friends to talk to too. Can't he realize that I'm not going to leave him like they did, and that I went through the same stuff?

What do I do?

Sincerely,
Desperately confused

Dear confused,

Life is full of choices. Probably you should find another boyfriend. You can't expect a lasting relationship to be successful when you and your boyfriend have two such different feelings about "other friends".

If he is jealous now, he will always be jealous. Nothing you can do or say will change that. So - don't try to tie your life to someone with whom you have such huge differences. You've tried to explain how you feel to him and he doesn't want to live that way.

So give it up, or give him up; It's your choice.

Truly yours,
GG


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