My girlfriend just told me she didn't want to see me anymore
We have been off and on for three years. We have been neighbors for the
longest time, so we are like the best friends.
She says that she still
want to be best friends but when I am with her all I want to do is cry and
hold her. Does she really want to put me through this much pain?
She tells me the
only reason that she broke up with me is that she doesn't
want a boyfriend.
Will I be able to have her back? There was
nothing wrong with the relationship. Is there anything that I can do that
would make her like me again. I even gave her two roses and asked her
for a second chance, but she seemed uninterested in them. She says that
she doesn't know if she will ever go out with me again.
Is there a chance
that she will find out what she is missing and want me back. If she does
do you think that will be a long time. What can I do to get better sleep
at night, because I haven't been sleeping and I have had bad eating habits
since then, which is four days ago?
Please reply as soon as possible,
Thank you
Sad lover
Be glad this has finally happened while you are still young.
You could have gone along pining for this girl forever and never got
anywhere. At least she has now made it final that though you and she will
always be friends, you will never be married.
Take an inventory of your assets. I don't mean money, I mean what are the
things about you that a woman would like. Do whatever you can to improve
yourself. Get into good physical shape. Organize your life so you present
a neat picture to anyone coming along into your world. Make lists of
things you need to improve and then follow your list. Check things off
when you accomplish them and keep an eye on the things you haven't done
yet.
Be the kind of guy that a girl would just naturally love to be with. If
you can forget this first girlfriend and aim your sites on someone else
you will sleep better at night.
Use all the experience you have gained with her to find another lady
friend. It's a big world out there; chock full of wonderful women. One of
them is just waiting for you to come along with your special attention,
and your roses.
Try two dozen next time.
Good luck,
GG
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